Ok dearest VISITORS and Readers, I'm gonna talk 'bout some things here !
Firstly, school just started again. It seemed like so fast, IT IS. 'Cuz we only had 3 weeks of holiday. Not including Remedial Time Slots. Well school really made me think alot. I channel my time today to focus on teenagers like us. When you reached an age of 13, you're considered a Teenager, I hope I'm not wrong. Ok during this period of time, you'll find yourself undergoing alot of CHANGES. Puberty, is one of the main one which no one can Avoid. Ok don't talk 'bout that. Let's talk 'bout yourself, your attitude, your mindset and what you are doing.
When we reached 13 years old, we would be enrolled in Secondary School. THIS is not what Causes alot of people to change. It is, sorry to say, friends. And in my point of view, MUSIC, as the sub-category. Well,a change in secondary school would be the amount of Subjects we had to take. The increasing burden to keep up with everyone, and to keep your standards. It is normal. If everybody overcome this, everything would be back to normal. Studies is important, I know this always sound familiar, but It's TRUE. Judging from my own personal point of view. I once thought that Studies were not important. I thought that without studies, you could just get a job and support yourself. The thing is, readers. Are you feeling happy doing what you didn't intended or DREAMED to do ? Do you wanna work for something that you hated the most ?? Ok next, around 14 to 15 years old. We'll get familiar with the school. We would know which teacher can bully, which teacher cannot bully. And we would know the school very well. Hang out with our group of friends. And when I say group, it means 3 or more people in one group. And usually, these groups of people usually does what each and everyone in their group like to do. Like, for example. This particular group likes to play basketball, and you can see that they hang out at basketball courts often after school.
When we reached 15 years old. We're already very very familiar with the school. And usually around this age, teenagers often start to change. I mean, rapid change. For example, they stopped coming to school, smoke, joining gangs and have a very very bad attitude in school. You will see that they often sleep in class, not listening in class, SMS-ing their boyfriends or girlfriends. And they get influenced easily. For example, a guy from one particular group started smoking. And everytime they went out together as a group, he will smoke. And some of the group members, thought that it is very COOL and nice way to present yourself and they started doin so.
Smoking is very common among teenagers nowadays. Usually ranges from 15 years and above. I tell you, it seriously stink. It stinks worst than my pile of SHIT. Ok let's not go into details.
Peer pressure,the most important thing. I would advise readers who came into my blog to help me pass this message. Do not get pressurised by your friends easily. By saying no doesn't mean that you're coward. You're a true man.
Some of these people who didn't really care 'bout their studies in school always tend to fail their secondary 3 or managed to scrape through. Fortunately, some who retained woke up from their nightmar, and eventually realised reality is what we are living in. However, some will continue to be like their normal selves. It is common.
GAMEs is another issue. Someone will have no friends if wat he does everyday is just go home and get himself engrossed with GAMES. They'll have bad tempers, they'll get tired easily. They'll have no friends. Well, but I can say, Friends are not Forever. This is really true.
What I am sayin here are all the truth. Trust me. I'm like these once before. After the wake up call I've gotten, I realised that I'm not myself anymore. Now I've started to think.
Advice. Try to be yourself fullest in groups. Being in groups may make you feel superior, could make you think that what you are doing will land you in no wrong place, make you think that it is very cool and fun to do that. And having lots of attention.
And for those potential emo-kids in the future. Your life don't suck. You're not alone in this world. Whatever you do, your family would always be the one who is supporting you, advising you. You want to die. Before you want to die, think of how hard your mum went through almost 10 months of pregnency. And think of how pain is she when she's in the labour. Giving birth to you. Spending almost all of her energy pushing you out to this place call Earth. She would faint after she saw you, and heard your cry, as she had no more energy left. Why would you wanna end your life like this ? Your mum won't be proud. You will be hurting yourself and your loved ones like this.
Life is meant to be happy. Not sad. Make things happen, make it happy. It is easier to remember SAD memories then HAPPIER ones. SO, live your life to the fullest. Have more happier memories.
